“. . . the wedding bells are a distant memory, the photo album is
tucked away in a closet and the breathless anticipation of a new life has faded
away. . .how do you keep that spirit alive. . .”
"15 Steps Toward Improving
Your Marriage"
Have
the emotions of courtship become tarnished memories?
Do
you find yourself wondering where the passion has gone? Is it difficult to see that dashing white
knight in the guy who sits in front of the television watching football every
Sunday?
Or
maybe the challenge is finding the gal that turned your head with super model
looks in the sloppy sweats and curlers that greet you across the breakfast
table?
As
they say, the honeymoon is definitely over!
The
feelings are still there and the love hasn’t diminished. But with the hassles we all encounter from
day to day it’s easy to let our priorities get out of whack!
We
live in a stressful world what with work, children and financial pressure. Before we know it, our marriage has taken a
back seat. It’s no wonder that marriages
are failing at an alarming rate.
Here
are a few symptoms:
·
In conversation you constantly correct your
spouse.
·
You make your partner the butt of jokes.
·
You argue over money.
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Can’t agree on decisions about the children.
·
Sex has taken a back seat in your relationship.
By
no means are these the only symptoms. If
you have forgotten what it’s like to communicate with you spouse as you did
when you were dating, you can bet there are other difficulties in the marriage.
Remember
what life was like when you were dating?
Those feelings were very real, but they do and should change over
time. The first blush of love is
destined to nourish and grow as your relationship matures.
But,
you can rekindle the flames of those forgotten memories. You can breathe new life into your
relationship and we are going to show you just how to do it in “15 Steps
Toward Improving Your Marriage.”
How do we do it? Take a look and
learn:
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Catch your spouse doing something
"right" – Are you fighting fair?
·
Share domestic chores – Can doing the dishes
really help your love life?
·
Becoming a good listener – We were given two ears
and one mouth for a reason!
·
Share parental decisions and support – “Mom said.
. .Dad said” Do your kids play this game?
·
Never forget to say please and thank you – Why
it’s important.
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Share financial responsibilities - This is a huge
issue and you’d best get it right!
·
Remember to apologize – And make sure you mean
it.
·
Resolve conflicts quickly – Letting them fester
creates a relationship infection that’s hard to cure.
·
Establish marital goals – How to know where you
are going.
·
Never go to bed angry – This is not just a
cliché!
·
Plan time for romance – Spice is the variety of
life!
·
Explore common interests – Just a little bit of
“give and take” will go miles toward rekindling the relationship fire!
·
Share your fears and insecurities – How to show
your vulnerability.
·
Don't be afraid to cultivate your own interests –
And reveal your own identity.
·
Never succumb to jealousy – This is “sudden
death” for a relationship.
Don’t wait until it’s too late. Don’t
become a statistic. Ensure your
successful relationship and grab your copy right now and learn “15 Steps
Toward Improving Your Marriage.”